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May 1, 2008
Question
Should I stay and work on my personal goals here (which seem to be blocked) or let go (give up) and take the opportunity to relocate and help my sister who is in med school? She's without family and in exchange for room and board, she could use someone she trusts to support her when she starts her clinicals in the fall. We'd have five dogs and a cat between the two of us! When I think of moving, I feel overwhelmed, sad, and fearful because I can't do it without incurring debt (which is already a stressor). My boyfriend seems unmotivated to work on our issues. I want to grow emotionally, spiritually - is my sister's the way to go?
Answer I don't believe moving to help your sister would be a bad thing - in fact, you need completely new energy around you. So at least consider it seriously. You will, of course, take your problems with you if you don't create better boundaries for yourself. If you go, make sure that you, your sister, and her son, all have a very clear picture of what your responsibilities are. Again, I don't think it's a bad idea for now - for several years even.
Remember that that stress/frustration comes from your third energy center (yellow in the solar plexus) and the healing energy center is your intuitive center (purple - third eye). So do some deep breathing exercises where you inhale (through your nose) visualizing the color yellow, and then exhale completely through your mouth visualizing the color purple. Try to relax at every opportunity and continue to develop more faith and trust in your own abilities. You have much to offer.
Thanks for your honest question. I can certainly sense (and agree) that you are very stressed and at a crossroads in your life. I believe that your goals are attainable, but timing is very important at this time in your life. Your energy may well be in a self-sabotaging mode - one necessary for certain types of growth (powerful) - so I'd suggest slowing everything down for a short time and then making major life changes. Your relationship is certainly not healthy. He must do more if it has any chance of working -- will he do that? Maybe not, but only you can decide if it's time to stop trying to make it work.
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